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Re: Will having a Daddy give me what I want?

 by Motherly ¦  2 years ago ¦  Forum: General Discussion (Main) ¦  Topic: Will having a Daddy give me what I want? ¦  Replies: 2 ¦  Views: 2140

I think the real question you should answer for yourself is: am I ready to be in a relationship? There’s a lot of pressure in this community to find a Caregiver or a Little because supposedly that other person will make life be something fantastical. It’s easy to get swept up into believing you need...

Re: Littlespace and consent

 by Motherly ¦  2 years ago ¦  Forum: General Discussion (Main) ¦  Topic: Littlespace and consent ¦  Replies: 6 ¦  Views: 3145

This is an excellent question! I think the rules here are that if you’re knowingly doing something that is childish, or doing something different than you would if you didn’t think about being little, in hopes of making someone treat you as if you were more incapable than you actually are then you’v...

Re: I feel disconnected from other littles/communities

 by Motherly ¦  2 years ago ¦  Forum: General Discussion (Main) ¦  Topic: I feel disconnected from other littles/communities ¦  Replies: 20 ¦  Views: 7878

I’m going to probably sound very controversial here but it is through my experience that what you describe yourself to be is genuine and really, truly how most of these personalities actually play out. Online, people definitely inflate themselves to be or want something they aren’t. Realistically, n...

Re: Can I be both?

 by Motherly ¦  2 years ago ¦  Forum: Newbie Knowledge ¦  Topic: Can I be both? ¦  Replies: 3 ¦  Views: 6201

Welcome to the community! :hi: You’ll find that most of the community exists primarily online. That being said, you’re more than welcome to interact on our forum to gain a sense of community, to exchange knowledge with those who identify similarly, or to utilize in expressing your regressive feeling...

Re: I need advice now that i dnt have a daddy

 by Motherly ¦  2 years ago ¦  Forum: General Discussion (Main) ¦  Topic: I need advice now that i dnt have a daddy ¦  Replies: 2 ¦  Views: 2048

You can utilize the calendar on your phone to help you keep track of appointments and other scheduled tasks. You can use the reminders app to help you remember things too and get that pop up notification. For example, if you set the app to remind you to go to the bathroom to give yourself the opport...

Re: Not content with caregiver

 by Motherly ¦  2 years ago ¦  Forum: Newbie Knowledge ¦  Topic: Not content with caregiver ¦  Replies: 3 ¦  Views: 6385

As much as you want your partner to do this or be that the truth is that caregiving isn’t something you can will another person to be better at or do more. It cant really be taught because it comes from the heart. True caregiving is a romantic expression of love, and not everyone is capable of expre...

I have had some bad things happen around the time I regress to and frequently when I littlespace (stressed not comfortable) I will have flashbacks to it, and it scares me. However, now it's bleeding into normal littlespace and it's upsetting me! Can anyone help me remove those feelings?? Or at leas...

You’re going to need to talk to your partner about their expectations of you when they’re behaving in any sort of intentional defiance. Your partner probably has some ideas of fantasies they’d like acted out, or has already put in a lot of thought about how their magical perfect Mommy would ideally ...

Re: 1st punishment in a ldr with my daddy.

 by Motherly ¦  2 years ago ¦  Forum: General Discussion (Main) ¦  Topic: 1st punishment in a ldr with my daddy. ¦  Replies: 3 ¦  Views: 3149

Wow, I’d really be hurt if this was me with the fact that he didn’t feel like communicating the broken rule was important! I’m so sorry he’s left that with no clarity at all. That isn’t fair to you. Hopefully he’ll be able to learn to do better in the future. This definitely sounds like there is som...

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