I'm not sure of the nature behind what you're asking or why, so I'm just keeping it generic. I think Nym mostly answered the question in a pretty cut and dry manner. But, yes, I have friends who are in a CGl relationship and one considers herself butch and the other femme.

As long as it's safe, sane and consensual, I don't see why it would make any difference. If you're cool with it, you talk to him and he's cool with it and you tell him you don't want it to really change things and you can both do it, I say go for it. But that's just this little's opinion.

I'm not sure if there are any BeDeeSeM friendly counselors but I'm sure there are if you know where to look. It might not hurt to go through some counseling with him and see if you can have someone mediate for you. There's a lot going on there and it sounds like he has some issues of his own and sin...

I'm always wearing cute things and I do cute things in public and act like a brat when I'm at the store... and no one has ever said anything and, if they give us dirty looks, my Daddy just grins at them in this knowing way and they scurry off like he did something inappropriate. I'm often in littles...

Safe words. And make sure your daddy has repsect for safewords. As for getting into littlespace, for me it's like being comfortable and feeling safe enough to let that side of me show and then I just slip in. It's different for everyone, though.

I had a "Daddy" like this once. I was having a literal panic attack and when I panic like that I'll literally do anything to make it go away and he took video of me doing things he was telling me to do and I didn't want to do them but he was mad and was going to punish me so I did it so I wouldn't g...

Breakups are always bad times. Always. If you're feeling numb or like you have no feeling, you should really take Nym's advice and talk to someone about ways to get over this. Self-diagnosis isn't a good thing for help. Get someone who knows to help, even if it's just a social worker to get you star...

It seems like when you break up with your CG that it hurts worse than with other relationships. None of them are fun, but it's like a special little slice of hell when it's a CG. I'm sorry you're going through this and I hope you're slowly healing.

The biggest and most important rule in any relationship is communication. You have to be able to talk to your partner. I have a hard time asking my Daddy for things and I tend to just wait for him to notice I want or need something and that's not good. So I got brave and asked him if I could have so...

A lot of littles tend to keep it to themselves, especially with the climate in some areas that it's any number of things that it isn't. I thought it was okay to tell my roommate and she literally flipped out on me and spent two hours yelling at me about what she thought it was and acting like I was ...