This is one of those chicken/egg discussions that there will possibly never be a firm answer one way or another. It also frustrates some to no end that the opposite group asserts their opinion. I'm in more of the live and let live middle ground :) My opinion is that recognizing the dynamic has its r...

I'll sometimes switch to petspace from little space and back, yes. Sometimes it's just a different type of reassurance to lean against his leg and have him pet puppy's head vs little me wanting to crawl into his lap for cuddles. Other times it's the type of play or training were engaged in (Sir is a...

We often react to music without conscious thought, so it's not surprising that many of us are able to connect to headspace with music as an aide. In conversation with my CG, traditional nursery rhymes might come up and all, but if I'm looking for music to help me relax into headspace I actually have...

If you feel like you don't have control over your regression and it's interfering with your day to day actions and responsibilities, that's a sign that it might be a good thing to get a therapist involved, just to give you some tools to work within that space. But if it's not actually interfering or...

Emotional infidelity is just as harmful as the physical type, you're looking at serious issues all around if you continue in this manner. Now, as someone who is polyamorous and has a husband and a separate caregiver (long distance, so mostly online) WITH the knowing consent of all parties, it can be...

Baby talk... Whether talk or texting, it does not at all come naturally. I do tend to get a different tone in my voice when I'm in littlespace, experience some different speech patterns, and may occasionally clip the beginnings or endings of words, but to talk/text in a full-on baby talk "vernacular...

Not so much a funny story, but I did slip deeeeeeep into giggly littlespace one day at work. The vendor I was dealing with probably thought I was either intoxicated or flirting with him, lol.

For people that consider their Little selves a side: Why would you say that it is that way, as opposed to a personality trait or part of your identity at the core? The assumption here is that the language choice of "side" excludes the possibility that a side is a part of the core identity. I like a...

A nice warm bath can be very soothing, cuddling with a special blanket, being read a story book, or sucking milk from a bottle.

I had this conversation with my husband. Basically I said... "You know how I like Disney movies, and my stuffed animals, and little kid stuff sometimes? Well, apparently there's a name for that and I've been doing some reading and stuff and I think it fits me. It's called being a little, and it's ac...