I'm so, so sorry. You don't deserve to be treated this way...no one does. Ultimately, the decision is yours whether you want to stay or to leave him. Before you make any decisions, perhaps try speaking with him on level ground, outside of little space and in a neutral place, to see if you can get to...

Any partner, no matter what kind of relationship you're in, should not insist on changing who you are. Being a little is part of you, and your partner can either respect that and love you for it, or, frankly, your partner needs to get lost. When someone truly loves you, then they love you for everyt...

While I don't behave as a Daddy Dom 24/7, nevertheless, I have always been driven, like you, to be a full-time caretaker. The difference between living as a Dom 24/7 and just naturally feeling a desire to take care of those you love, I feel, is in the nature of a Dom's relationship with their little...

In my opinion, a CG/l relationship is a two way street. Caregivers and littles may show love, support, and concern for one another in different ways, however, it should be shown by both, regardless. Others will disagree, and that's fine: we all want and need different things. We've written a little ...

By rituals and protocols, I assume you mean the general patterns we develop and follow with our littles that help define the boundaries of the CG/l relationship. There are several different types of these relationships, some that are CG/l only (no romantic relationship outside of the contract), some...

First, you shouldn't feel humiliated. If others don't understand, it's their problem, not yours. Granted, I'm not exactly out to everyone in my life, but more because it just makes life a bit easier, I think. To answer how you find the courage, I will again say make sure you trust the people you tel...

I think it all comes down to trust and mutual respect. I will tell you a bit of my story, and discovering how my little was a little and how I am a Daddy. I didn't know that my little was a little, nor did I know that I was really a Daddy, until about two months after we began traditional dating. We...

Yes, most of us DDs have an age range that we look for/are most interested in fostering. That being said, it don't know why that would necessarily rule out all age play outside of that range. Admittedly, I've only ever been on one DDlg relationship (though I was in this relationship for a long time)...

I can only speak for myself, here, but maybe it will shed a bit more light on the topic, as a whole. Then again, everyone is different... For me, as a DD, there is a certain physical aspect that allows me to assume the roll...just as littles don't live 100% of the time in little space, I (and other ...

Thank you for asking this question, sjtalldaddy, and thank you for your thoughtful answer, MommaWren. I have been there with both of you before, both dealing with my own issues of fatigue/exhaustion and depression, while also being in a committed relationship with a partner/little who suffered from ...