Like I think, honestly, I would do really well with a bisexual man who could see me as / wants me as all that I am. But it would have to be someone secure enough to be out, because I just can't do the closet anymore. And it could be someone who identifies as a woman - but it would have to still be D...

So I had to break up with my Daddy Dom / Baby Boy again. I can't do this anymore. Long story, lots of sickness, addiction, etc. The last thing he needs right now is a relationship, and even tho it's killing me to stay away, I have to, for both our sakes. I was on the phone with his sponsor (a straig...

Hey, Yeah, I know what you mean about this: "I know what I want I just don't know if it's a possibility. " At least I think I know... for me, there's some gender stuff in the mix as well, and I... really don't know about that. Like if anyone would even want to deal with that. I am very insecure and ...

Thanks for writing. I agree with the friends first thing. It's so, so hard to let go but I feel like I have to. At least I can't hang myself up, in terms of my life, even if my heart is hung up still. Thanks so much everyone for the support. I am gonna try to crawl to a BeDeeSeM and sober event in t...

Hello, I am wondering if there is anyone else on these boards for whom sobriety is an important thing! 12-steppers or not, is anyone here? Or anyone who doesn't have a drug/alcohol problem, but maybe works a 12-step program (or another spiritual path) around codependency, recovery from child neglect...

Hey, Switch here, with both PTSD and C-PTSD. It's all too real. And it totally affects my relationships and play life. I just wanted to take a moment to acknowledge that: a) Your struggle is real. b) You are not the only one. c) I, and others, feel the sadness too. It is my opinion that you are wort...

Hey thanks for writing back, Whew, that sounds rough. I can identify with discovering deep, Little and Switch things, having issues for me come up in terms of how that relates to me as a Top, and then having someone leave. I don't blame the other person, in my case, they have to do what they have to...

Hey there, I don't know how thoroughly I can respond, as I am "re-exploring" a lot of this stuff my self. In my last relationship, we both discovered our switch sides. I had pro-Dom/med professionally for years, but it was a bit of a surprise to have that come up in my personal life, and in a "Mommy...

I have a polar bear named Pumpkin and she has a friend who is a brown bear named Mister. He has coduroy pants and a tie. I have a purple skunk named Violet and a beaver named Blossom and some elephants and 2 pigs my friend made me. There is also a duck named Mr. Boston and he is married to another d...

Thanks for talking to me everyone. I saw him two days ago. He's in a mental health unit. They have been telling him he's crazy which isn't true. He's traumatized. They give him benzos and don't even care what that does to him. It makes me want to end them all. We were all over each other in seconds....